On the Issue of Gay Marriage

I've noticed increasing animosity and confusion with regard to the Church's stand on gay marriage and their decision to become involved in California's election with regard to Proposition 8. I've seen a lot of church members try to argue, defend, explain, etc. but it seems to me it's always a waste of time and only stirs up contention. I myself have wondered how I could effectively respond without giving offense and still answer in an intelligent way which reflected the church's actual stance and not just my own feelings on the matter. We know what is right, we know what is true, but how do we answer without contention and why bother when it probably won't change anything anyway?

I've come to the conclusion that the best thing to do when approached about it, is refer people to the church's official commentary on the issue. I've read through most of it. I found it to be very clear, leaving no questions unanswered. And it presents the views of the church in an unoffensive yet unapologetic manner. Listed on the same page are additional resources on the Internet one may look into to have a better understanding of why the church and other churches and organizations feel so strongly on this issue.

May I just say how grateful I am to belong to this church. It is truth and light and I know it without a doubt. Our Heavenly Father only wants what is best for us and what will ultimately bring us lasting joy and peace. The issue can be debated over and over again. Laws can be passed, society's rules can change. But it isn't for us to decide what's right and what's wrong. It's already been decided.

I know my audience is very small, but please, those of you who read this blog, take a minute to follow the link. If you've had any doubts, concerns or questions about why our church leaders have chosen to participate in this very politicized issue, and if you truly know as I do that our prophets speak for the Lord, I am sure you will find the commentary satisfactory.

http://newsroom.lds.org/ldsnewsroom/eng/commentary/the-divine-institution-of-marriage